A mother to the world is a protector, guider, savior, and GOD. She will do everything on her end to be shelter to you. And all the great things will always link to the meaning of a mother. But me being a girl, daughter, wife and a daughter in law, have something tell a mother.
A husband to a mother: My beautiful wife, I am thrilled to your unconditional love and care for us. I know I annoy you in many ways but sweetie always remember I love you the most. When I come from the office, I always look for you, your warm smile, and a hug. I feel relaxed and loved when you are around. I am so happy that you care for our child immensely but I would like some attention too. I want to have our space too. I dnt want to end that little spark between us. Love, today in this modern world, we are prepared to let go of our child to peruse their dream and when he leaves it will be just two of us. I want you to remember that no matter what is going in life we will always be together. None is gonna stay longer, everyone will leave and it will be just two of us. It’s the love, understanding, and care for each other that will help us go on. I want to be there for your struggle, you don’t have to do it all. let me share some of your care, love to your child. I want your time, I don’t want you to be all focused on your household, I want you to go on things that make you happy rather burdening your self with the duties of work. Yur duty is not to feed us, clean the house, and keep sacrificing your happiness and time for us. You have a life to, do things that you love, enjoy, and make you more lively. Lets all of us take the burden of each other and step up for things that are supposed to be done by us not you. Can your world not be all about the responsibilities and care for your child, can I be a part too?
A daughter to a mother: Dear Mother, you always protect me from all the evil things, you have been sacrificing your happiness for me since I was born. You guide on every path I head. You always do the best thing for me. But mother, at times you fail to understand me. The generation gap and passing years have changed a lot of things, and you don’t consider those changes. You need to understand that I will head as per the time, but when you fail to understand this I try to find a way where you can be happy and I can get on with my path. Your guide to all my work is great but mother I want to choose my path, make mistakes and learn. I want to do crazy things, I want to fail, I want to try new things, I want to have my wine, I want to go out for shisha and I want to do everything by telling you. But I know there is this gap that I cannot tell you everything, you will judge me, restrict me, and not understand me. You burden me with your expectations, I want your support not order, I want your protection but I want to have my own path. Mother, please understand things changes with time, I don’t want to hurt you but I want to experience every bit of this world. Can you please be with me on my every step and you be a friend to me on bad and scary days.
A daughter in law to a mother: Dear mother in law, I am happy to be a part of your family and glad you gave me an adorable husband. Mom, I thought you have been with all the pain, taunts, sadness, and uncomforted that a new house brings but I was wrong. I had to go on with all of it one more time. When I came to this house, I wanted to felt warm, welcomed, loved, guided but I had to comfort myself all alone. I wanted to be motivated, wanted to feel like home but couldn’t see it for months. You were supposed to be there for me when someone pointed things, you should be listening how I had spent my years, you were supposed to know me better so that we could get long, rather, you were busy entertaining guests, talking about- your children, their lifestyle, your life, leaving my side all undiscovered. When I speak to you about the difficulties, all you have is to compare your situation with the one I am facing. Your time was different and mine is opposite to what you were in. I still sat quietly and did all I could to impress the family. One-sided efforts only bring frustration and break home. I tried my hands on everything that I never thought I would ever do, but you didn’t notice, you did appreciate. Mom, these small things matters, and this makes our bond stronger, I wanted to be your child too but you never fail to be biased. You always said that we were all same but never treated that way. Mom, can you please take a moment and feel the pain that you went through and how it would be if you were showered, love? Can be a real mother and daughter who has nothing for each other but immense love?
I know it is too much to be a mother and a lot of responsibility. But you have to be alone in that burden, make all of us apart. Try understanding our point, let’s all speak, communicate, and fill all the spaces that we built for each other. let’s be together and move on with life.