To all my dearies who have begun to read this article, I promise you, the article will not be disappointed. Okay, I will try keeping it short.
To this modern world, where everything is so easy to make and easier to break, no-one even thinks, what would the scenario be if they have stayed a little longer in that state. Excluding the ones, who have to face abuse, violence, threats, cheats, agony, and all daunted things. I am not counting you in. To the ones, who has a normal life, will the regular strifes, my article is pointing you. Stay a little longer!
Giving you pointers when you get upset with your family members, boyfriend, girlfriends, relatives, and anyone close to you, just remember these few lines. And, you will always make the right decision.
When you feel like leaving a home
Problem-You are constantly, offended by your parents, they don’t understand you neither do you. You are frustrated will the thousand house rules and restrictions. Yeah, I feel you. The situation is very frustrating and all you want is to get away from that damn house and get going on your own. Parents are never able to understand you, support you, and be there for you emotionally. And you are not able to communicate this problem to them? Do you feel the same way?
Solution- Parents built the tendency that whatever they do for you is right. They will always burden you with their decision, even without thinking that for once their child might be right. This is the problem with almost every child, there is a huge communication barrier between parents and children. In this situation, for your better days, just talk to your parents. Tell them how you feel about your life and how you want to go ahead. Of course, this not going to be easy but at least you need to give it a shot and come to a mutual agreement where both of you put your sides. See, the chances here are either they will understand or put some mutual agreement or shut you down. Most likely, the first two options will work, because kids, your parents love you the most, don’t ever doubt that.
When you want to leave your girlfriend or boyfriend
Okay, so all the teenagers, get it skipped because there are no such things you are going to do. It’s your time, make mistakes, and learn from that. Experience counts!
Problem-You know that the guy/girl is amazing but out of boredom you just don’t want to continue. Or you always wished for Mr/Miss perfect but after a serious catch you come to know that they are not. Or you are not liking anyone regular habit of your partner. Or their anger, cheesiness drives you crazy. Or on the initial stage, you felt very good about it and later you think you could do better? If you feel this way then, you are going to find an answer.
Solution- In this material world, it is very easy to be with someone and leave them but difficult to maintain charm and craze. You might always feel that you can do better at some point but trust me it’s never that way. When you leave a person for their single habit, or boredom or anything mentioned above, always remember, you can have a perfect guy. Its imperfection that binds love, that binds you both. The beauty will fade, and you will be alone. You lucky to have someone who cares for you, is in love with you because you are not perfect. You have flaws, so does he, accept that. The key to any relationship is accepting each other. And communicating why are you annoyed and what you don’t like about your partner. Also, never pass a decision when you are angry because that makes things worst. Say to yourself to hold lil longer because it’s always better to stay than regret later. Life doesn’t always mock you with good people.
Promise to continue further, don’t want to make it longer. As no one’s going to read it. Some might thing nothing I have never heard, to them- it is important for you to read it out loud, time to face reality. This is how things work buddy. But I do have a stealer here, the key to every relationship is communication and acceptance. Communicate how you feel about your partner, clear your intensions that help your opponent understand you better, and be there for you to what you are. Accepting what your life is and how people are going to be is one major step to a successful and happy life. Try it once and you will why I write them as key. And yes, Stay tuned, I am not done yet.