Are you in a deep thought that how things are different in a blink of an eye? Do you think there is someone in your partner’s life but not confirmed about it. Let me pin a few signs that you can check to confirm your doubt. Though the signs of infidelity look different in every relationship but there are some common threads that you can look for.
1)The sudden improvement in appearance
If you caught the glimpse of a sudden improvement in your partner’s appearance. She/ he starts exercising, changes in the style of clothing of change in the style of haircut could be pointing to some doubt.
2)Overuse or secretive use of phone or computer
This might be serious look out guys. Using their phones and computers more frequently than before. Also, if your partner’s phone/ laptop never requested for a password before, and now it does. And suddenly you see a deleted texts and cleared their browser history on a daily basis.
3)Sudden increase or decrease in intimacy
Significantly less, or more, intimacy in your relationship speaks a lot and can be a sign of infidelity. Less intimacy points to focus on someone else and more intimacy points that they are trying to cover that up.
4)Blaming things to you
Your partner is argumentative toward you. What happens is, infidelities tend to explain their behavior in their own minds and they try to push the blame against you. Also, the typical lines that, you are not the same as before or you’re no more adventurous in the bedroom, or don’t appreciate all the wonderful things they do for you, are likely to come out of your infidelity.
5)Ready with an excuse for later arrival
If you see that your partner was never late doing his office work or gets frequently stuck on work or rushes out for immediate work is a sign of doubt. Also, suddenly, your partner is having a business work and finds a need to travel for work during weekend getaways is a sign of cheating.
If you see that your partner is having unusual expenses. And when you question about it you hear a manipulated story is a sign that they might be cheating on you. As when you are seeing someone is obvious that you have expenses of dates, movies, food, etc.
Hence, if you learn that your partner is actually cheating on, I would strongly suggest that you talk to a trusted friend, your pastor, or a therapist. Or just confront your partner with the information and then come to a conclusion.